Thursday, September 20, 2012


It appears I have surprised a few people with my statement about being pregnant in my last post. So for those of you who missed it I would really appreciate it if you read the post below because it details my mixed emotions and the trepidation I have about this little one more than just a simple announcement does.

Here's the link.

Thank you dear readers.



  1. Hi, I'm here. I know what you mean about not knowing what to say but feeling like you need to say something. I'm here and I have been and I will be. Thanks for the comment. I was thrilled to have a comment.

  2. Hi Em
    Yes, it is exchanging one rollercoaster for another... or rather it is worse, as you're actually riding both together.

    We also had a difficult ttc journey - I turned 40 the day before C's funeral, and it took us a few months and an early miscarriage to get pg with M. Then I couldn't believe that she would arrive safely. It just felt so risky. Pg after losing a child is a giantic leap of faith - I thought I would get better as the pg progresses and the chances of a live baby improved. Instead, as the weeks passes I increasingly felt I had more to lose.

    You need to focus on the happy outcome you want being the most likely outcome, and just take it one day at a time, I think.

    Much love to you Em - I am so pleased for you. Miss M has helped us heal xx