tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post3443883763536432641..comments2023-04-01T03:49:22.593-07:00Comments on After Eva: Little JEmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-73993554693672271372013-07-13T16:22:11.820-07:002013-07-13T16:22:11.820-07:00Maxie's mom, I am not offended one little bit....Maxie's mom, I am not offended one little bit. Not at all. Just so you know. I'm not even sure what I would be offended at with any of your comments :)Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-2513721808287216652013-07-13T12:14:22.370-07:002013-07-13T12:14:22.370-07:00I mean I understand why you don't want to be a...I mean I understand why you don't want to be admired for a situation that you didn't choose. I am sorry if I offended you.Abby Levisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15748394086960661826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-54146708231611096812013-07-13T12:13:39.602-07:002013-07-13T12:13:39.602-07:00Meaning - I understand why you are resistant to be...Meaning - I understand why you are resistant to being admired for a situation you didn't choose. Abby Levisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15748394086960661826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-48812569921630690492013-07-12T16:35:08.386-07:002013-07-12T16:35:08.386-07:00I understand thatI understand thatAbby Levisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15748394086960661826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-80242133162629919172013-07-11T22:12:37.267-07:002013-07-11T22:12:37.267-07:00Please don't admire me Maxie's mom. There ...Please don't admire me Maxie's mom. There is nothing to admire. I'm just another broken hearted mom missing her daughter. Yes, I love Little J but it's agony sometimes. And it's hard sometimes, you know. To love.Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-13552403680573283302013-07-11T22:10:42.425-07:002013-07-11T22:10:42.425-07:00oh Lisa, I am not a beautiful person. I write well...oh Lisa, I am not a beautiful person. I write well but that's about it. I hate. I rage. I grieve. I envy. And I don't give enough, not nearly enough. Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-55694204218521612032013-07-11T15:54:16.562-07:002013-07-11T15:54:16.562-07:00I know that I have no idea at all but I think that...I know that I have no idea at all but I think that at some point, Little J will bring your heart some healing - bittersweet. Your complicated life is full of love and you two obviously have huge hearts and are wonderful parents and that is why Little J is with you. Of course you love her! And of course she won't bring back Eva. I really admire you and your mothering.Abby Levisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15748394086960661826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-41613453172838323982013-07-11T10:19:28.838-07:002013-07-11T10:19:28.838-07:00No words. So complicated, and yet such a wonderful...No words. So complicated, and yet such a wonderfully amazing thing that you've done for a child. She will never replace Eva, and I'm sure it is very hard at times to see her grow while Eva doesn't. But it makes me believe even more what a beautiful person you are, what a beautiful soul you have. You give even though you feel you have nothing left to give. And there is nothing more that anybody could ask xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11156015722355587810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-78610879325099243762013-07-10T23:17:35.991-07:002013-07-10T23:17:35.991-07:00Ah, dear, complicated doesn't even really scra...Ah, dear, complicated doesn't even really scratch the surface...Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-2316201127202213802013-07-10T20:21:46.966-07:002013-07-10T20:21:46.966-07:00"Complicated" just doesn't seem to d..."Complicated" just doesn't seem to do your heart justice.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-76464622731042473072013-07-10T08:33:32.551-07:002013-07-10T08:33:32.551-07:00Complicated is right Susan. I feel vulnerable shar...Complicated is right Susan. I feel vulnerable sharing this but it's been on my heart and mind for so long and I'd been waiting for Little J's adoption to be completed before going through with this but it's taking sooo long that I just needed to get it out.Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-61019738481465412592013-07-10T07:52:47.456-07:002013-07-10T07:52:47.456-07:00Wow, you shared a beautiful and complicated life w...Wow, you shared a beautiful and complicated life with your readers,i feel ur despair but i feel ur hope too. I admire ur courage in opening your heart, even though it is broken, and u know certainly not perfect, to another child in the midst of abysmal grief. The story of Mary and Jesus telling her that John was her son was a breathtaking parallel Em. I wonder who took u to that story for solice in your pain.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15789002207661241181noreply@blogger.com