tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post2269153687575750604..comments2023-04-01T03:49:22.593-07:00Comments on After Eva: To plan or not to plan (possible trigger).Emhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-31232752568428336832013-03-30T23:44:56.181-07:002013-03-30T23:44:56.181-07:00My babies sleep with me so i didn't have a roo...My babies sleep with me so i didn't have a room to memorialize which always made me sad. A few toys a few clothes so little is I have.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13964282196898709053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-27440993537404540032013-03-30T23:43:30.053-07:002013-03-30T23:43:30.053-07:00Do you wait to find out the sex till they come out...Do you wait to find out the sex till they come out? We did as well :) three girls. With them being so little they don't have that much stuff so I kept everything. Couldn't bear to part with socks even. I thought I'd have a hard time with Mandy wearing her stuff but I love it and I will be so sad when her stuff is no moreJennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13964282196898709053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-22812867989757885782013-02-13T11:22:48.906-08:002013-02-13T11:22:48.906-08:00Heidi, It was a long time ago that this happened w...Heidi, It was a long time ago that this happened with the woman from our church. Over a year ago. A lifetime ago. Long enough ago that it almost doesn't matter anymore, except that it does. <br />I was glad to share Eva's things with you when you were here. It's a joy to share her with those who truly want to see.Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-5902624435240265642013-02-13T11:20:42.930-08:002013-02-13T11:20:42.930-08:00Thanks Suzanne. Eva's crib has been a comfort ...Thanks Suzanne. Eva's crib has been a comfort to us in the past year+ but we are also looking forward to using it again for her sibling. And to do that, I need to deal. Deal with her stuff. Deal with my emotions. Deal with my love for this daughter of mine I love so very, very much. Just deal.Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-21768050157168957242013-02-13T11:14:44.987-08:002013-02-13T11:14:44.987-08:00Yup. Everything is different. Very different.Yup. Everything is different. Very different.Emhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11910371746336686970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-70107388490272981472013-02-12T17:38:23.273-08:002013-02-12T17:38:23.273-08:00I totally get why you would not want to plan too m...I totally get why you would not want to plan too much and I have never lost a child...<br />It really puzzles me how many people can be so insensitive to your loss when they have not travelled that road. I loved seeing Eva's things when I was there...<br />And I am sure you will feel the need to prepare, as your time is nearing to give birth:)<br />Enjoy those baby wiggles...they are wonderful:)Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10926080379801096543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-71079350251095819792013-02-12T14:19:37.140-08:002013-02-12T14:19:37.140-08:00Exactly. Of course you're not the you you used...Exactly. Of course you're not the you you used to be. And you've done this more than once. You know what is necessary and what isn't. This baby will come and everything will come together as it needs to when it needs to. <br /><br />I love the idea of Eva's crib in your room with you, still full of her things. Full of a new baby brother or sister soon? <br /><br /><3Suzannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01955054876521178314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76554524397208747.post-60638237450980468692013-02-12T07:45:41.189-08:002013-02-12T07:45:41.189-08:00We have nothing ready either. We still have an inf...We have nothing ready either. We still have an infant carseat, but nowhere for this little guy to sleep, nothing for him to wear (well, almost nothing), no nursing pillow, no diapers. And I think the extent of our preparation will be to clear a little space in our room and to write a shopping list for my parents to take care of while we are in the hospital recovering from c-section. I just can't bring myself to get things ready for him. I can't believe he will come home; I can't see into May at all. So we'll have our list and we'll deal with everything after he's here. Sometimes I feel sad about this, about missing the joy and excitement of getting things ready but...everything is different this time around, isn't it? March is for daffodilshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11287273786322029725noreply@blogger.com